Updated: Jan 5
Happy New Year... Looking Forward to 2023…
As I snuggle up to watch the heartwarming short movies of the season. The big Green Guy was the first one my family embarked upon while chatting, munching and watching the holiday story. As the room became more quiet and the attention was more attuned to the story, I found myself seeing this tale in a ‘new light.’
The Grinch has always been so mean!! He steals and hurts. He has not a bit of empathy or compassion. I never liked this story.
The Grinch hated Christmas. Hated the WhoVilles. Blamed all WhoVilles for his meanness.
WhoVilles loved Christmas. Fearful of The Grinch.
What is all this with his heart??? He has a small heart!
The Grinch wants Christmas to come no more…but why?
Oh the celebrations with laughter and food.
The most irritating of all the signing.
The songs convince us that this big green monster is horrible with an empty heart and soul.
As the viewers are hurting with pain for all those in Whovilles. We want to reach-out and help the sweet little Max who has to fill some mighty big shoes as the Reindeer.
Our disgust rises as the story moves along.
But curiosity lingers…Why does he take everything?
I know just what they’ll do… states the Grinch…they will cry!
BUT…the love, friendship, connection was bigger than the tragedy.
Heart too small….
Negatively impacted by happy stories and experience during Christmas…..
So as I recognize that this movie short is from 2018 The Grinch Mini Movie(you can see clips on YouTube). It gives a few more specifics to this Holiday tale.
Sweet baby Grinch is living at the orphanage. He is forgotten at Christmas. He witnesses all those engaging in the love of the season. He searches for attachment, attunement, love… how to cope with something so unbearable for a child.
In this version, The Who’s are nice and not scared of the Grinch.
The Grinch is used to being alone, he convinces himself it is better to be alone.
The WHY, HOW to the -traumatic events that no one loved him. He received no presents and was all alone on Christmas.
All the noises, happiness, fun, all triggered horrible sad attachment memories from his childhood. He had no food and presents when he was a child.
His heart was smaller, no connection, no attachments, no community, no attunement.
Once we discover that the issue is not anger and hate, it appears to be loneliness and fear.
How refreshing it is for the Grinch to be so very creative, fun and connected with his dog. He accidentally turns the tree on at the Town Tree Lighting Ceremony; the sensory overload at this point was too much as it began the flooding of memories in each way of the darting of his eyes. This somatic encounter changes everything for Grinch.
Isolated, sad, no mom or no dad. No friends, no tree, no gifts, no one… no one cared!
He apologizes and becomes whimsy.
His focus for survival is connectedness with his dog and negative coping skills. We see him attune, connect, brainspot, and feel his heart grow with love and compassion nearing the end of the movie. He has a somatic experience.
He connected to the girl and with curiosity he wondered….. This scene is a fabulous depiction of attunement and brainspotting:
Sound, body, sight, spot, attunement, presence of others.
As we see the town welcome the Grinch, the audience ponders the thought that this is just the Grinch’s issues and perspectives. His trauma has been with him a very long time impacting his daily life.
The Grinch begins to realize that others do care when the reindeer returns to help him, when he is invited to Christmas dinner, showing kindness to Max.
Cindy Lou Who shares with the Grinch that he is forgiven and has been alone long enough.
Grinch struggles to do the hard thing… show up for Christmas Dinner. He shares with all those who are so excited to see him that he was mean because he thought it would fix something. The Grinch is excited to be part of it all as he jumps in to be helpful.
He takes the toast and shares his new awareness that it really isn’t Christmas that he is mad at; It is loneliness and being alone.
He identifies the true change in his heart… that one little person's act of kindness changed his entire life.
What a wonder this may have been to take such a surface story of meanness verses kindness and allow humanity to see that early experiences do impact our lives. We hold on to it. We relive it. We need to learn how to let go of it!
I am so thankful for this new rendition of an old tale. Things I will take with me…
Showing kindness is a valuable healing tool. Teach this to others!
Keeping our eyes open to those who are sad, angry, lonely. Everyone needs connection!
People don’t always know why they are mad. We hold experiences and trauma that come out in unexpected ways. Compassion is important.
One act of kindness can make a HUGE impact. Smile and care.
My challenge to our Society for 2023… put this into practice, I would venture a guess that our society would see a decrease in depression, anxiety and addiction.
When a person feels love and connection to others, they are able to manage the ups and downs of life more effectively.
What we all need is kindness and love! Proclaims the Grinch…
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January is Human Trafficking Awareness Month
Monthly Report from The Ohio Human Trafficking Task Force:
December 2022 Update on Ohio's Anti-Trafficking Efforts
December 2022 Human Trafficking Update
A brief overview of current news and updates on Ohio's anti-trafficking movement news:
~Seventeen men in Northeast Ohio were arrested and charged as the result of a human trafficking investigation. ~Congress introduced a bill to expunge criminal records of trafficking victims. ~The S.T.A.R.S. Foundation, based out of Toledo, will expand services to assist youth who are at high-risk for sex trafficking. ~A man living in Ohio was detained by a federal judge for allegedly running a sex trafficking operation in the 1990s. tools & technical assistance Responding to Human Trafficking among Children and Youth in Foster Care and Missing from Foster Care The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Administration for Children and Families released an information memorandum on Responding to Human Trafficking among Children and Youth in Foster Care and Missing from Foster Care. Working with Foreign National Minors Who Have Experienced Trafficking The Office on Trafficking in Persons and The National Human Trafficking Training and Technical Assistance Center released a new online training module on Working with Foreign National Minors Who Have Experienced Trafficking. meetings & events Survivor Series: Fundamentals of Sex Trafficking Jan. 4, 10:30 a.m. - 11:30 a.m., virtual The Greater Cleveland Coordinated Response to Human Trafficking's Survivor Advisory Council will host a training titled Survivor Series: Fundamentals of Sex Trafficking.
Southwest Ohio Human Trafficking Conference Jan. 11, 9 a.m. - 4 p.m., Dayton Masonic Center, 525 W. Riverview Ave., Dayton, OH 45405 Oasis House of Dayton will host the 2023 Southwest Ohio Human Trafficking Conference.
Human Trafficking Awareness Forum Jan 14., 1 p.m. - 4 p.m., Regovich Catering, 33150 Lakeland Blvd., Eastlake, OH 44095 The Eastlake Women's Club and the Lake County Collaborative to End Human Trafficking will host a Human Trafficking Awareness Forum.
Continued Presence for Law Enforcement Jan. 18, 3:30 p.m. - 4:30 p.m., virtual The U.S. Department of Homeland Security, Center for Countering Human Trafficking will host a series of webinars on Continued Presence for Law Enforcement.
Healing and Hope for Familial Trafficking Survivors Jan. 19, 2 p.m. - 3 p.m., virtual Relink.org, in partnership with Eyes Up Appalachia, will host a webinar on Healing and Hope for Familial Trafficking Survivors.
Applications in Resilience Jan. 24, 10 a.m. - 12 p.m., virtual Advocating Opportunity will host an 8-part series of trainings on Applications in Resilience.
It Happens Here: An Honest Look at Human Trafficking Jan. 26, 5:30 p.m. - 7 p.m., The John McIntire Library, Auditorium, Meeting Rooms A & B, 220 N. 5th St., Zanesville, OH 43701 The Mideast Ohio Rescue and Restore Coalition will host a training on recognizing and preventing human trafficking.
Ohio Attorney General's Human Trafficking Summit Jan. 26, virtual and in-person, The Greater Columbus Convention Center, 400 N. High St., Columbus, OH 43215 Registration is now open for the Ohio Attorney General's Human Trafficking Summit.
Freedom Network National Conference April 17 - 18, Washington D.C. Registration is open for the Freedom Network National Conference.
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